There is a NY Times article highlighting the VN adoption challenges faced by some of the families stuck in the middle of it all. Here's a link: http://www.nytimes.com/2008/02/11/us/11adopt.html?ex=1203397200&en=4d87ecbf081a3e53&ei=5070&emc=eta1

Our girls will come to us in exactly the right time for our family. I just have to keep saying that and believing it. My needs and wishes about my family clearly are NOT within my control....and I have to stop obsessing to be able to fully appreciate the greatness of my family as it exists today.

I have been waiting for years for it to be "complete". but the truth is that the family was complete before we even had our first child. My husband and I completed our family when we got married. And for now, our first (miracle) child does complete us (sorry, Jerry Maquire), to say otherwise would be to diminish who he is in our hearts. It would be cheating him to say he wasn't enough for us.

They will come home. I cannot doubt it or question it or explain it. It just is.